I don’t know if I have an answer to that question.  Yet.

But, I have a written personal essay that discusses my thoughts on the matter. The essay was recently published at Mutha Magazine, and I’d like to share it with my readers.  

Here’s the link:  http://muthamagazine.com/2016/05/can-acknowledging-my-weakness-actually-be-a-sign-of-strength-asks-wendy-kennar/